Calling someone a dork is a fast anger trigger button they probably won't see that triggers less anger than a heavier insult. Mild venting which is practice disgustedly discarding people when you don't have the energy to find the decision makers who are actually changing things or when a gatekeeper doesn't listen and the full argument has been heard already. I get annoyed if we think this is the first step, but it's a pretty good last straw.
Calling someone a dork is a fast anger trigger button they probably won't see that triggers less anger than a heavier insult. Mild venting which is practice disgustedly discarding people when you don't have the energy to find the decision makers who are actually changing things or when a gatekeeper doesn't listen and the full argument has been heard already. I get annoyed if we think this is the first step, but it's a pretty good last straw.